If your familiar with the Bravo hit "The Rachel Zoe Project" than you already know her assistant Taylor. I personally like her style because I think it's effortless chic.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Style Profile: Taylor Jacobson
If your familiar with the Bravo hit "The Rachel Zoe Project" than you already know her assistant Taylor. I personally like her style because I think it's effortless chic.
Style Profile: Electrik Red
I soo LOVE this Group The first song I heard from them was "Blind". Then I heard "Drink in my cup". so that made me want to buy the cd and its been playing in my car ever since.
My favorite songs are
1.Devotion
2.Muah
3.On point
4.9-5
6.So Good
7.Friend Lover
8.Drink in my cup
9.P is for power
10.W.F.Y.
Weekend Playlist
John Legend-I Can change
Tyrese- Lately
Mos def- Umi says
Chrisette Michele- Blame it on me
AAliyah- I care for you
Tyrese- Lately
Mos def- Umi says
Chrisette Michele- Blame it on me
AAliyah- I care for you
It's not your fault it was the girl before you
This is for a lot of women who don't understand why certain men are dogs and just can't commit to you or the relationship. It's not your fault infact you haven't done anything wrong it was the girl before you. You see often times it was the girl before that hurt this man so much that he can't trust/let another person do that to him. You remember in keyshia coles song "trust" when Monica said " if he loves you he needs to show YOU trust you" the song could of been over at that point.
There's alot of girls ( I say girls cuz women don't need to play games) that feel that need to put men down in order to boost them up.
Why is this? It's easy the answer is they suffer from the desease called "Low Self Esteem". this is a terrible desease that alot of women suffer from and the sad part is this desease is tranferable because because when the man decides he's done with her and the relationship. That he's going to play the field and find someone new. And when he begins to build this new relationship he's always going to be apprehensive and maybe find fault in you when it shouldn't be placed there.
So what do you do? Give it time. If it's meant to be it will. Patience is sometimes hard but you have to remember someone had patience with you to. We all have to give love time. Just remind him that you're not her and you won't do the same thing to you. And like Monica said if he loves you he will trust you.
There's alot of girls ( I say girls cuz women don't need to play games) that feel that need to put men down in order to boost them up.
Why is this? It's easy the answer is they suffer from the desease called "Low Self Esteem". this is a terrible desease that alot of women suffer from and the sad part is this desease is tranferable because because when the man decides he's done with her and the relationship. That he's going to play the field and find someone new. And when he begins to build this new relationship he's always going to be apprehensive and maybe find fault in you when it shouldn't be placed there.
So what do you do? Give it time. If it's meant to be it will. Patience is sometimes hard but you have to remember someone had patience with you to. We all have to give love time. Just remind him that you're not her and you won't do the same thing to you. And like Monica said if he loves you he will trust you.
A rose is still a rose
I have a question can you turn a hoe into a housewife?
See in my opinion sure. I don't really get into once a good girl goes bad she's gone forever. I mean don't we admit that she was once a good girl?
So wouldn't it be her choice to change herself. I don't care what anyone says or feels. You can't change a person that change comes themselves. You can lead a horse but you can't make them drink. You can bring the sinner to church and make them join but if they don't want to get saved they won't.
If you remember the Aretha Franklin song a rose is still a rose. The young lady was a good girl and met the wrong guy who scorned but in the end she remembered her value and guess what she was a good girl.
No girl I know started out as a hoe. Something led her to that unfortunate situation to make her chose those bad descisions. So if she started out innocent than she could turn her life around and be the women she needs to be.
See in my opinion sure. I don't really get into once a good girl goes bad she's gone forever. I mean don't we admit that she was once a good girl?
So wouldn't it be her choice to change herself. I don't care what anyone says or feels. You can't change a person that change comes themselves. You can lead a horse but you can't make them drink. You can bring the sinner to church and make them join but if they don't want to get saved they won't.
If you remember the Aretha Franklin song a rose is still a rose. The young lady was a good girl and met the wrong guy who scorned but in the end she remembered her value and guess what she was a good girl.
No girl I know started out as a hoe. Something led her to that unfortunate situation to make her chose those bad descisions. So if she started out innocent than she could turn her life around and be the women she needs to be.
Chasing pavements
"We chase the ones that hurt us and hurt the ones that chase us". I wonder if this was the quote that inspired Adele's "chasing pavements". The song was written because she was chasing her bf after he walked out the car after an arguement.
I at times have been the victim of the Chaser, why? Because I don't like confrentation and I feel that if you talk things out and work on it, it will eventually change for the better. But what if that change never comes? When do you stop saying I'm going to keep chasing the problem so I could fix it? It's so hard to let things go especially when you are a good person but don't you think the chasee knows what they're doing.
Maybe they know better and sometimes the hardest thing to do is say goodbye. So instead of making a difficult situation than what is it is to just run and not look and not say goodbye. Even though it's going to be hard don't keep running after a broken situation. It's like an salvaged car. Yeah you gave it a good paint job And fixed everything up guess what? It's still going to break down and your just going to keep investing in something that's just going to keep depreciating. Please just let it go.
I at times have been the victim of the Chaser, why? Because I don't like confrentation and I feel that if you talk things out and work on it, it will eventually change for the better. But what if that change never comes? When do you stop saying I'm going to keep chasing the problem so I could fix it? It's so hard to let things go especially when you are a good person but don't you think the chasee knows what they're doing.
Maybe they know better and sometimes the hardest thing to do is say goodbye. So instead of making a difficult situation than what is it is to just run and not look and not say goodbye. Even though it's going to be hard don't keep running after a broken situation. It's like an salvaged car. Yeah you gave it a good paint job And fixed everything up guess what? It's still going to break down and your just going to keep investing in something that's just going to keep depreciating. Please just let it go.
Monday, October 12, 2009
"Good Hair" movie review
On Saturday my mother, sister and I decided to go see Chris Rocks latest movie " Good Hair" no as a black women I mean what was I going to learn *SPOILER ALERT* pretty much they showed how perms are made, where yaki or Indian hair comes from, how expensive hair is. It also shows black women put value in their hair. The running joke in the movie was "Don't touch a black women's hair" huh ok I guess in the moment yeah I could see why a women with weave wouldn't want you to touch hers. I personally don't wear a weave for different reasons like
1. I don't have to much patience in the beauty salon.
2. I don't want anything glued or sowed on to my head.
3. my hairs long and full enough by my standards.
4. and like all women I have confidence in my hair so I don't want anything fake there.
these are just my opinions now back to the movie.
What I already knew was that the people that don't make the most money off black hair is black people. Yeah your beautician is getting paid maybe $150-1000's up to do your hair but ultimately that money is going back to black people. I think that might of been the only eye opener to the people that needed to learn.
in the movie theater I was surprised to see people of different races but I was surprised to see them without black people.
I think it was a good movie overall because at the end of the day Chris Rock is a comedian so you had your laughs. And he just wanted to know about Good Hair.
Why are you so insecure?
I recently listened to a podcast that said if a female chose to have male friends that she has or in the future will have some kind of relationship with him that will be more than platonic. Or that the guy is gay and is her her bgf (best gay friend). To sum it up men and women can't be just friends.
I don't think this particulary is true, however it has always been a hindurance in any relationship that I had. I would usually get the dumb questions like "why is he texting or calling you so late, why is he in your top friends, where's his gf". And my favorite is "how many times have y'all gotten together". This would result in me screwing up my face. And saying " no were just friends nothing there between us" then I would "say why are you so worried if I'm giving you my time. Don't be insecure" and if that would continue I would say "this isn't goin to work because you keep looking for a arguement and I'm waisting my minutes".
I used to wonder if that kept guys away in my high school days because if you seen me in a hallway or out shopping or going to a party I had about maybe 3-8 guys and we'd all be chillen and I was never being disrespected by them so I enjoyed their company and were still friends to this day.
My motto is bros before hoes and if I'm not trusted around them it's not my fault it's the guys insecurity and the gf to these dudes never had a problem with me to my knowledge so if it's not broken don't fix it.
I don't think this particulary is true, however it has always been a hindurance in any relationship that I had. I would usually get the dumb questions like "why is he texting or calling you so late, why is he in your top friends, where's his gf". And my favorite is "how many times have y'all gotten together". This would result in me screwing up my face. And saying " no were just friends nothing there between us" then I would "say why are you so worried if I'm giving you my time. Don't be insecure" and if that would continue I would say "this isn't goin to work because you keep looking for a arguement and I'm waisting my minutes".
I used to wonder if that kept guys away in my high school days because if you seen me in a hallway or out shopping or going to a party I had about maybe 3-8 guys and we'd all be chillen and I was never being disrespected by them so I enjoyed their company and were still friends to this day.
My motto is bros before hoes and if I'm not trusted around them it's not my fault it's the guys insecurity and the gf to these dudes never had a problem with me to my knowledge so if it's not broken don't fix it.
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