It's not your fault it was the girl before you

This is for a lot of women who don't understand why certain men are dogs and just can't commit to you or the relationship. It's not your fault infact you haven't done anything wrong it was the girl before you. You see often times it was the girl before that hurt this man so much that he can't trust/let another person do that to him. You remember in keyshia coles song "trust" when Monica said " if he loves you he needs to show YOU trust you" the song could of been over at that point.
There's alot of girls ( I say girls cuz women don't need to play games) that feel that need to put men down in order to boost them up.
Why is this? It's easy the answer is they suffer from the desease called "Low Self Esteem". this is a terrible desease that alot of women suffer from and the sad part is this desease is tranferable because because when the man decides he's done with her and the relationship. That he's going to play the field and find someone new. And when he begins to build this new relationship he's always going to be apprehensive and maybe find fault in you when it shouldn't be placed there.
So what do you do? Give it time. If it's meant to be it will. Patience is sometimes hard but you have to remember someone had patience with you to. We all have to give love time. Just remind him that you're not her and you won't do the same thing to you. And like Monica said if he loves you he will trust you.